Is it as hard for you as it is for me?

Is it as hard for you as it is for me?
a constant thought full of different scenarios?
do you wonder what could be changed to make things back to normal?
retrace steps?

is it harder for you than it is for me?
to put yourself into someone else's shoes?
everything seems so perfect
but little imperfections ruin the whole picture
why?

consider a handkerchief,
kept white and clean by the owner
when brought out to the public they see the perfect image they want to idolize.
Be like that person.
 have what they have.
now consider the same white clean handkerchief, dotted by a drop of ink.
when brought out to the public all they see is that dot,
it ruins the perfect image,
they want to be better.
its hard for one to focus on happy moments
much easier to focus on one unhappy one.

is equality possible in this
is it because such a feeling is hard to measure
one effort being more than the other in some aspects
All fingers are not equal the amount of love you show will be different
how do you differentiate a lopsided love from an immeasurable love.